Richard Rupp, M.Div., MFT
psychotherapist, author, speaker

individual, pre-marital, & marriage counseling in
 Pasadena, CA


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Men's Conference
Men of Honor:
The Key to Greatness in Life and Love

Honesty    Loyalty    Integrity    Respect    Courage    Self-Control

   

Honor used to be a matter of life and death in men’s lives.  To live with honor was a man’s greatest motivator in his conduct and relationships.  To lose honor, whether on a battlefield or with a woman, led many men to die with honor.  If men lost honor in their life, they believed they could restore it by how they died.  In our post-honor culture today, we look down on this ancient practice of dying with honor.  But have we also looked down on living with honor?   

This men’s conference restores a place for honor in men's lives and relationships.  Learn why honor is essential for boyfriends, husbands and fathers.
  A great life and love starts with an ancient code of honor.

Conference Outline
I.      Honor:  Who Needs It Anymore?
II.     Sex and Honor
III.    When Men Lose Honor 
IV.    Restoring Men's Honor

 
Choose Your Personal
Code of Honor

Choose three of the following kinds of honor that matter most to your life.  Memorize them.  Repeat to yourself daily.  Apply to your life.  See what a difference it makes in your character, relationships, and faith.
 
Honesty
Loyalty   
Integrity
Character 
Respect    
Courage
Self-Control
Commitment
Dignity
Sacrifice
Doing the Right Thing

Masculine Codes of Honor

Medieval English Chivalry
Code of Conduct

?  Live to defend Crown and Country and all it holds dear.

?  Live one's life so that it is worthy of respect and honor.

?  Live for freedom, justice and all that is good.

?  Never attack an unarmed foe.

?  Never attack from behind.

?  Avoid lying to your fellow man.

?  Avoid cheating.

?  Obey the law of king, country, and chivalry.

?  Administer justice.

?  Protect the innocent.

?  Respect women.

?  Exhibit self control.

?  Exhibit Courage in word and deed.

?  Defend the weak and innocent.

?  Destroy evil in all of its monstrous forms.

?  Crush the monsters that steal our land and rob our people.

?  Fight with honor.

?  Never abandon a friend, ally, or noble cause.

?  Never betray a confidence or comrade.

?  Die with valor.

 

 


Bushido
(Way of the Warrior)
Samurai Code of Honor
Frugality    Loyalty     Martial Arts Mastery   
Honor unto death

?  Justice  (Gi)   

?  Bravery  (Yuu)   

?  Benevolence  (Jin)  

?  Politeness  (Rei)  

?  Veracity  (Makoto)  

?  Honor  (Meiyo)  

?  Loyalty  (Chuugi)  

 

 

West Point Military Academy Cadet Code of Honor

"A cadet will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”